Expression Could Save Lives

“How often do we consider the importance of our expression, and that expression is not only a natural part of who we are, but that ‘Expression is everything’?” (Serge Benhayon , 2011)

Whether we express ourselves, or not, or the way we express ourselves, has a consequence in our daily lives.

The BBC published an article entitled: ‘How speaking up can save lives.’ (BBC News 2015)

Pretty sobering given the article discusses two industries – aviation and medicine – and in both industries examples were given where lives were lost. In both cases the member of staff (co-pilot/junior doctor) did initially speak up, but did not make themselves heard. The Aviation industry has since been undertaking training for aviation staff and found in the simulations that “Co-pilots would rather die than contradict a captain.” (BBC News 2015)

This training is now being undertaken in the National Health Service (NHS) in England too.

These examples show that “Expression is everything,” right down to the matter of life and death, and yet these examples also show that the people here didn’t ensure, no matter what, that they were heard.

How many of us express what we feel in full, or ensure that we are absolutely clear in our expression during our daily lives – whether it is a matter of life or death, or a simple matter of communication within our homes or at work? And what gets in the way of us expressing?

In children there is a freshness and an openness in the way they say things out loud when they see something, and sometimes parents or ‘grown ups’ tell children to ‘be quiet’ because they may feel uncomfortable with what the child said as it exposes or unearths a truth. And whilst there may be occasion when ‘piping down’ is appropriate, telling our younger generations to ‘be quiet’ may be dampening down their innate, natural expression to say things as they are, to speak up, to say how they feel, or to talk about what they see in their lives.

During our education and in our modern day workplaces we have communication and presentation skills’ training which teaches ‘respect, politeness, courtesy and how to be polished, smooth, entertaining’, or how to tell the listeners/audience ‘what they want to hear’ and how to not ‘ruffle feathers’. And when we do speak up in the rawness of a situation, or give our feedback at work or in life, we can be seen as ‘negative’ or ‘out of line’… to the extent that we can fear for our jobs if we do speak up.

Yet in our lives today there are many ills and atrocities in society where we need to speak up, sign a petition, write a letter etc. There are many daily situations where we need to express clearly, whether in matters of urgency or simply in every interaction we have, as misunderstanding, error or conflict amongst people has arisen from unclear communication, or from something that is partially expressed or watered down.

Is it not our responsibility to express? If we expressed with the openness of children and allowed our innate, natural true expression to come out and we learnt together in our workplaces and in our daily lives that “Expression is everything,” our expression may just save lives.

Otherwise, as the BBC news article highlighted, we may be culpable (directly, or indirectly as bystanders) for many things that happen that could have been handled differently, where communication plays a key role – take for example the ‘never-events’ in the NHS:

“In 2012/2013 in England there were nearly 300 “never-events” – incidents that can cause serious harm or death and are wholly preventable.” (BBC News 2015)

The ripple effect when we re-awaken our expression in full, and when we speak up in our daily life, not only has the potential to save lives, it has the potential to change our world today.

Reference Sources:

  1. Serge Benhayon (2011:117), Esoteric Teachings & Revelations: A new study for mankind, Unimed Publishing
  2. BBC News (2015), How speaking up can save lives, 26th July – Health.

By Jane Keep

Further reading:
The responsibility of Expressing Truth
“Expression Is Everything” – How I Feel About Myself, The World, And Other People

Recognition is Nothing, Expression is Everything

808 thoughts on “Expression Could Save Lives

  1. “Co-pilots would rather die than contradict a captain.” (BBC News 2015)… No surprise really as there are many examples of surveys and interviews where the general public state categorically that their fear an expression is stronger than anything else in their life

  2. A brilliant blog Jane and I totally agree with the statement ‘Expression is everything’, I was someone in the past who didn’t express their truth for fear of how it would be received from others but thanks to Serge Benhayon I have learnt to express more in life and to feel the immense freedom and power that comes when we express.

  3. As a child I was constantly told to be quiet and shut up and at school from day one we were never encouraged to express, quite the opposite in fact, it often meant the ruler if you spoke up. This is a great blog to come back to as we live in a time where expression is needed more than ever and there are a few things that I really need to express over the coming days.

    1. I had a similar experience Kev, and one at home where we werent told to be quiet, and got told off when we were talking – particularly at the dinner table. No wonder we can get used to keeping quiet even when we see things that need expressing.

      1. I relate to those situations as a child in which I was told to shut up… they are fixed in my body memory as markers of what I should or shouldn’t say. The good news are that even though those marks are there, I can embrace my true expression now again. I’m aware now of the responsibility of expressing or not, and how well my body feels when I honour its impulses of expression, as there is always a bigger purpose behind those impulses… and when I express it does really makes the difference.

  4. This blog spoke to me very loud and clear this morning. It makes me realise that the quality in which I` live, the standards that I set myself and am willing to follow are what support my clarity and depth of expression.

  5. It is very, very important to express in full. That does not always mean verbalising everything to everyone. We can start by expressing to ourselves ie allowing ourselves to be aware of and nominating what we are feeling, observing and know. Then we can discern if that needs to be further expressed in words, writing, via our eyes by our movements or in some other way.

  6. Thank you Jane, your blog inspires me to look at what gets in the way to express myself in full I am aware that when I hold back my expression or start judging I am adding to and equal responsible for a world where expressing the truth is not appreciated.

    1. I agree Annelies, we all have a responsibility to express the truth. Nothing will change if we hold back expressing truth. It is very common that we see people too afraid to express truth because often it is ignored or putdown. But no matter what the reactions we may receive, expressing truth and what we feel is what feels true and we know this deep down no matter how afraid we may be. The tension we hold in our body from holding back expressing ourselves in full is huge.

  7. Yes, our expression definitely ‘has the potential to change our world today’. We are part of the problem or the solution, just for keeping silent or expressing what needs to be expressed. No need for great statements, just communicate openly what we feel. Each and every opportunity is essential and always makes a difference.

  8. Perhaps the fact that many of us, as adults, struggle to be able to express, even if we see something that is potentially damaging, is a direct result of having our expression shut down as a child. I have worked with children’s voices in the years between five and seven and many of the children were already struggling to express. So, what happened to that beautifully natural and honest expression that they had as little children? It’s a question that we adults really need to ponder on honestly and then take the responsibility to begin to nurture and support our children’s natural expression.

  9. I spent a lot of my childhood and adult life keeping quiet because it was what I felt people liked and I wanted to be liked. I also felt fearful that I might upset people. Unfortunately there is a huge price to pay when we hold back what we feel needs to be said. These days I feel its better for people to know the truth, even if they get upset, and I also know its better for my health to express rather than hold back.

    1. I can relate, as I came from the ‘be seen but not heard’ generation and remember many occasions when my mother would be talking, and I would have to sit on the floor next to her chair very quietly. I found that I then chose to hold back my words which harmed me and has taken years to reverse, in fact still working on it.

    2. True Debra and my childhood and most of my adult life I kept quiet too not so much because it was a verbal message but because I felt that holding back was needed to be liked and there was something in me that knew so well how to do this. I fooled myself that I was naturally quiet for a very long time but boy oh boy how frustration and resentment build up in my body. Letting out myself and letting people in has changed so much in my life and I get used to the fact that not everybody likes me but you know I love them.

  10. This is a type of solution that we deliberately overlook, when in fact it is one of the most powerful. But, not the most glamorous, not the kind of approach that will win popularity and gain recognition from the world…no wonder we avoid it….but at what cost?

  11. It is also important to consider that we do not lose ourselves in speaking up for others and disempower them. As speaking up for others can be used to heal ones own issues of not be heard and listened to.

  12. Thank you for taking the time to speak up and let us all know the benefit and true right of speaking up and that we must not fear it but stand tall – as our expression is needed in the world, we have all the right to live our true selves in expression in full. Day and night.

  13. Beautyfull reminder and great sharing. Yes I love what you express here and it inspires me to speak up more and listen more. I really want to listen to my upcoming child and learn from him to be so much more aware and share all I’ve learned with everyone around me.

  14. A powerfull message that is showing us our way forth – expressing , but more so accepting and allowing ourselves to express, without restriction just as it comes out -naturally, as we are all born to express. Without our expression there is no truth. And where there is no truth.. There is no purpose. So what will be our plan next?

  15. ““Co-pilots would rather die than contradict a captain.” This says it all Jane that we would rather die and take down a whole plane full of people than contradict the pilot. This goes for so many professions especially those jobs where there is a strong Hierarchical archaic institution of working your way up the ladder, but this also happens in almost every job, that the fear of retribution and the bullying that can occur for speaking up out weighs the responsibility we have to make sure that what needs to be expressed is not pushed under the carpet or watered down so that the message is not clearly heard.

  16. Yes something is seriously out of order when a person is willing to die rather than speak what they feel is true. A reflection of how far we have fallen from our natural way of being.

  17. How we express, and the quality we are when we express does have consequences in our, and other people’s lives.

  18. A great article Jane, I can feel in the past how my communication has been unclear, and watered down and not speaking up for fear of causing a reaction, learning to actually feel from my body and expressing from there is a continual work in progress, sometimes I am able to express honestly and that feels great in my body and other times I hold back which fills my body with tension and unease.

  19. If “everything is expression” and ‘everything is energy’ could it be we are caught in a web where we are not understanding what to fully express is all about? If this is True then maybe then as Jane has shared True Expression, “has the potential to change our world today.”

  20. “How many of us express what we feel in full, or ensure that we are absolutely clear in our expression during our daily lives?” Very few I would reckon, yet if we don’t, people aren’t mind-readers….. Expressing how we feel is so important. It validates ourselves by nominating how we are doing and can then allow others to do the same, especially in times of vulnerability. I experienced this personally last week when caught up in the wild fires in Portugal.

  21. Beautiful Jane Keep — so true, we save ourselves by our expression as everything is everything — so when we give up our expression (which is who we are) we give up our everything and so when we express we let everything be — which will increase love and awareness, serve us all.

  22. We can literally save lives by speaking up in potentially challenging situations but we can also save lives when we take the time to express our appreciation for others.

  23. The recent Harvey Weinstein sexual abuse and harassment expose has prompted many thousands of women (and some men) to speak up about their own experiences of abuse for the first time. We have a tendency to silence ourselves when it comes to areas like this when it is the very opposite that is required.

  24. It’s interesting to consider that expression is more than that which we verbally communicate. From our body language to the way we walk, sit, sleep and live, we are broadcasting everything about ourselves all the time.

  25. Wow the force of suppression could be felt in your paragraph about the co-pilots who would choose death over speaking up. What energy are we wielding to not allowing another to have a voice. To me this shows the power expression holds if such force needs to be wielded.

    1. I agree Kim – we can be crushed in a system, but in the end somewhere down the line we chose to shut down or reduce our expression. How different the world would be if it were normal for us each to express in full.

      1. The world would be totally different, there would be no where to hide if truth was spoken as easily as we breathed. It would be a very confronting world but a world based on evolution.

  26. All conflict, war and disharmony stems from lack of true expression. So, it make sense how important it is for us all to express in full, like you shared Jane, ‘Expression Could Save Lives’.

  27. ” The Aviation industry has since been undertaking training for aviation staff and found in the simulations that “Co-pilots would rather die than contradict a captain.” (BBC News 2015) ”
    This is quite incredible, but consider how the whole life of the co-pilot has come together to be in this state . Consider how terrible our society must be for this to come to happen.

  28. When we allow ourselves to speak up we allow ourselves to be naturally ourselves and what we feel.. Hence holding back our expression is actually making us sick. We can never ever serve ourselves or each other when we do not express our natural selves.

  29. Absolutely Jane, it is our responsibility to express, and to express with love, ‘If we expressed with the openness of children and allowed our innate, natural true expression to come out and we learnt together in our workplaces and in our daily lives that “Expression is everything,” our expression may just save lives.’

  30. I actually remember choosing to shut down my expression as a child, There was defined moment in the back of the car when as a result of not being listened to when I was expressing I decided to keep my feeling to myself….. it became easier to do this than to express what I really felt……….and this continued into adult life, I held the world accountable for my choices and held back expressing in full. I then further entrenched this by choosing to work with horses so that there was little to express.

    1. Love your honesty here Alison – many of us if we pondered for a moment may realise we too shut down expression in some way. I remember doing that when I was a very young child.

      1. I remember doing this too Jane, feeling shutdown by what I expressed and decided to not express so I didn’t have to feel what was going on as a child. It is only recently that I started to express without fear of being shutdown or attacked. It is the best feeling ever to express truth no matter what.

  31. I totally agree that “expression could save lives” but I also know that expression, used in a negative way, can also harm lives. We see it daily with hateful words being spoken within every part of our society and also being written on the internet and then being spread far and wide. There are people who have taken their lives after vicious bullying with words, without a punch being thrown. So, to know that there is a power within our expression that can harm equally there is a power that can heal and this is the true expression that the world needs much more of; it will definitely be life-saving.

    1. And if we take expression as not just verbal, or written but in our movements there is much that has a ripple effect on others in the way we move too – we can harm or heal with our movements.

    2. So true Ingrid, unfortunately the internet has become a breading ground for this kind of harm you’ve shared about in your comment. It is very common for words to be used like weapons of destruction, especially on social media. The power of our expression can either heal or harm.

  32. There are many situations in life in which sticking to a pattern may kill us. Yet, many prefer to remained trapped in there than breaking free from it. Expression is definitely a crucial tool to leave behind these awful situations and to re-imprint our life.

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