Being Made Redundant? Supporting an Opportunity to Evolve!

The prospect of redundancy can often be a time of uncertainty and distress, perhaps with questions ofWhy me? Why now? Or what did I do that was wrong?” This can be at the forefront of our minds. Dealing with change that you don’t feel prepared for can feel like climbing a mountain.

Being in the throes of prospective redundancy certainly threw up anxiety in my case as I had a deep desire to stay where I was. Whilst not the perfect utopia, I loved the easiness of my teaching post in a private boarding school. It was comfortable and my relationships with staff, children and their parents were strong.

The school was in a beautiful setting, with high standards, great staff, supportive parents, small classes and an amazingly well behaved school population. What teacher could not appreciate and love working in such an environment? I could easily have stayed, put my feet up and glided to retirement.

However, I was also aware that there was no longer a feeling of being challenged and I had a sense of a level of coasting, stagnation and complacency creeping in.

For most of my career I had used the private sector as a form of escape or sanctuary to avoid the possible overwhelm from the more challenging, rough and tumble behavior that mainstream schools can bring.

I had been toying with the idea of leaving my current teaching job when my inner voice of wisdom came knocking with strong impulses to leave and return to the mainstream system, from which I had hastily fled many, many years prior. I was psychologically gearing myself up for a change, but I was battling with the longing to hold onto comfort and the feeling of safety of what I already knew I could manage.

The holding on to my comfort was winning… the other inner-voice (the not-so-wise one) was holding on for just another year… “I’ll do just another year and then I’ll look for another post…,” “I’ll see the next year’s group of students through, then I’ll go.”

I had just made up my mind to stay when God called, through the form of my head teacher, who announced that a redundancy had to be made between me and another member of staff.

It was like my calling card had come in. At the moment of the announcement I had an image of one of those pedalos you rent in Mediterranean beach resorts that you paddle out to sea for a bit of a play. When your hour is up, they flag you back to the beach with a round sign and your boat number.

I was being called in, “Your time is up! Time to go somewhere else where you can expand your service, your love and your own personal development.”

I’d had my playtime and now it was time to roll up my sleeves and move to my next point of unfolding. I decided to take voluntary redundancy much, I am sure, to the relief of the second teacher!

Certainty enabled me to start applying for other jobs in the mainstream sector and all seemed plain sailing until self-doubt began to creep in and I started to wonder if taking the voluntary redundancy had been the right choice.

I allowed things to get internally messy, but there was no going back as I had great support from friends, family and my colleagues. I was also aware of the immense opportunity for growth, expansion and a new beginning that awaited me if I chose to go down the voluntary redundancy route.

The job application and interview process began and I learnt much about each school I visited and how I felt in relation to each one.

I trusted the feedback I felt from my body. Sometimes I felt a tight pressure across my chest, or a constriction through my whole body. Many times my understanding and feelings were confirmed, so I forged ahead trusting my choices – after all, my true wise, inner-voice had got me this far.

I am glad to say that out of the many schools I visited, one felt completely right. Throughout my visit I felt an openness, lightness and joy through my body, even though it was a school a few years ago I would not have touched with a barge pole. I was offered a post as a senior teacher, with training to support me in my new role.

So with some procrastination but an overwhelming desire to move forward and to evolve, and not to stagnate, I have taken a step up in my career and, more importantly, in my life. I am now ready, able and willing to take on greater responsibility for others and for myself.

By saying goodbye to old comforts, being ready to commit to work in the mainstream sector, I know there is much for me to appreciate about myself and about the choices that have come with it.

So I can say wholeheartedly that for me redundancy was a gift from heaven and the nudge I needed to move on and take the next steps of expansion.

Perhaps there should be a statement when announcing redundancy – “A wonderful opportunity awaits for renewal and growth. Who wants to take it?”

With enormous heartfelt appreciation for Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine for showing there is always a next step to be taken, which leads to a forever expansion.

 By Anonymous

Further Reading:
Why Work? What is Work About?
Work Is Medicine
Working Full Time Again And Relishing It

614 thoughts on “Being Made Redundant? Supporting an Opportunity to Evolve!

  1. Reading this blog was a great reminder that I’d been working in a comfortable environment. Working part time, with the other days being taken by what, I couldn’t even think of. Then along came an opportunity and it all happened in one go, moving house, starting this secondment, and going full time, definitely positioned me out of my comfort zone. It was a steep learning curve and continues to be so.

    Despite this job being a temporary position, I have no idea where I will go to next even though my permanent position is still available for the time being.

    Every opportunity is an opportunity to evolve, it’s how we are and observe it to be, that makes the difference. We can adapt if we allow what’s a head of us as THE opportunity to so.

  2. Comfort is a draw card that can keep us in stagnancy and away from opportunities and growth and evolution. But when we allow ourselves to be challenged step out of our comfort zones then life really begins to open up – comfort is gone and we do not know the next step but in that uncertainty lies the certainty of growth.

  3. Awesome blog Anon, and it shows us how life is not really about comfort and making a niche where we can fee safe and left alone, but rather to make life about growth and evolution and connection with others.

    1. Henrietta, I’m leaning more and more about ‘life is full of opportunities’, I wasn’t willing to see it as that. Bought up in a world that working with the one employer was it, gone are those days where we used to receive the golden watch for working in one employment till retirement.

      Movements in work environments are occurring more and more, with some people making five year plans and, move onto the next. Are they willing to see it as an opportunity, or is it that they have such an unsettlement, they’re hoping the next job will do it. Much to ponder here too…

  4. Appreciation and expansion or evolution go together and thus who would not live for the evolution that is openly available when we let go of our attachment to life being a comfortable existence.

  5. Comfort and security can be a real killer even though it is highly sought after and seen as the ultimate prizes. More and more I can feel it brings a tension to my body which knows there’s more to life than staying cemented in place.

  6. When change is unfolding it’s a completely different experience understanding what is happening from our soul and trusting our inner wisdom, as opposed to reaction, emotions and not trusting what we sense. Is our intention evolution, is our perspective just survival and security, and viewing life from pictures?

  7. “Time to go somewhere else where you can expand your service, your love and your own personal development.” – such joy in this statement. What a way to look at redundancy – or any new change / direction in our lives.

    1. Seeing change and challenges as opportunities is indeed refreshing – our perspective can make a huge difference in how we handle the outcomes.

      1. At the time we may not realise all that is on offer with a situation, ‘I can say wholeheartedly that for me redundancy was a gift from heaven and the nudge I needed to move on and take the next steps of expansion.’

  8. This is a beautiful example of how letting go of comfort we are supported to truly evolve, the comfort feels snug but keeps us stuck and doesn’t offer new opportunities to expand and grow.

  9. This is great to read of your wholehearted embrace of an opportunity and all the learning and growth that comes with it, and dealing with the doubts and procrastination along the way. There is always more to learn, and when we feel that sense of comfortable complacency, it’s time to listen to that nudge to expand, before the sense of comfort becomes stifling.

  10. I love this – because if in one year we took every challenging situation as an opportunity to grow and evolve rather than an opportunity to step down – that would be an incredibly rich and fulfilling year.

  11. Taking the opportunity to evolve yourself you offer the same opportunities to all the children you will be meeting and teaching in your new role.

  12. Redundancy often comes with an unease as to what is next, yet it we stay steady with ourselves many opportunities arise and it can be the start of something much grander as we step up to what is next appreciating every moment.

  13. There is always a next step to be taken … indeed there is and the biggest thing is letting go, and allowing ourselves to feel that next step, to feel what we next are to learn and offer. Having been through a similar process in leaving a job, the biggest learning for me was to let go and allow the new to present itself.

    1. Redundancy is a very challenging form, but even tougher – is the prospect of being bullied and then sacked. However, even with that, taking the outlook that much can be learned in any situation and that evolution can come when we are most challenged… being very challenged has its benefits (even if a little painful)!

  14. When we nominate our comfort, we are saying yes to expansion, and what I have experienced in the past is this is where pictures come in as to how that ‘expansion’ looks like and I basically get in the way of myself. Learning to move with how the Universe moves is tricky for our mind as it wants to know beforehand it is getting it ‘right’. Trying to place confirmation before appreciating movement is a bit insane.

  15. This really shows how there are so many nudges of our soul, god or the universe to support us to expand and learn more and not stagnate. We are truly held in so much love.

    1. Beautifully said Leike – and whilst we remain open to the communications of the universe, then on some level we do know what is coming our way. This does not make things more comfortable, but it can give us some insight into what is coming next because that is what is needed next for ourselves and others.

    2. We are held in so much love, and supported to expand and evolve, ‘I was also aware of the immense opportunity for growth, expansion and a new beginning that awaited me if I chose to go down the voluntary redundancy route.’

  16. Job security is comfortable, of course, but there are times when we are called to move on and expand and the truth is, we have always already felt but decided to ignore it, just that little bit longer. We just revel in the known, it is our backbone.

  17. We love to stay comfortable and secure and not rock the boat at all, but when we let go of this picture as you have so beautifully shared we discover the growth and evolution we are offered.

  18. The body does give us messages such as a tight chest or feeling of ease when we consider such things like new jobs, relationships, what home/property to buy even down to each item we place in the shopping trolley.

    1. More than that, we stagnate and can even get ill. Staying out and keeping ‘safe’ can be deadly, in fact.

  19. The beauty in this article is not the choice that redundancy provided, but the choice to accept the pull of what was already deeply known and to follow this pull.

    1. It’s a great comment Leigh, we can let go of how life looks on the surface to embrace new levels of evolution, and the quality of energy we can deepen and expand.

  20. Reading your blog to day Anonymous I feel I have been living in comfort for sometime and now I am feeling open to stepping up to what has been presenting itself to me of late thank you.

  21. How great would it be, if redundancy was viewed as an opportunity to evolve rather than as a shock or setback. This would open the way for ease of passage for our next new beginning.

  22. It is awesome how you were already recognising the comfort you were in with your old job and therefore the potential gift that redundancy was offering you. I was certainly in comfort in my old job and told my CEO that he had made the right decision in choosing me for redundancy. He looked rather shocked and also relieved! Changing jobs and career paths has been a steep learning curve but I absolutely love my current job but when we go through a re-tendering process next year I am open to what unfolds whether or not I retain my job or move on to pastures new.

  23. ‘there is always a next step to be taken, which leads to a forever expansion.’ and there it is and often for us there is a surrender required as we come to understand and know that we are forever called to be more, and it’s not an effort, it’s a letting go, an allowing for us to live and express more of who we are in the world.

  24. What if life is only full of opportunities and all that we experience is an offering from the universe to move forward and make new steps and choices? What if, for some, being made redundant is something that happens long after the initial impulses to move forward were ignored and therefor the most flowing and easy way to move was passed by and there for being made redundant was a bit more in their face? While for others being made redundant is exactly the way to move forward as there is space offered where it is needed. The Universal plan is beyond the comprehension of the human mind and all we can do is to learn and surrender to it. We will then find for sure that we are being carried all the way.

  25. Great story. I recognize this very much: you know from intuition you should do something, and you don’t and then the decision is taken for you, often with much more pain and/or effort. Indeed comfort is a killer.

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