The LOVE of Serge Benhayon

Growing up as a child I was always longing for that Love I was taught about in RE (Religious Instruction) lessons and in Church – that unconditional, abiding and holding Love of God.

I was taught it was not possible here on earth as it was “heavenly,” but we should all aspire to it. Life was spent struggling to be this impossible perfection as some sort of ideal amidst the conflicting role models and influences of the human world around me, without having any idea how to approach it.

Eventually I gave up the Christian church, although the influences were still in me. I danced with paganism, Jungian Psychology, Taoism and hung around the fringes of liberal Christianity for a long while, and knew that what I longed for was not there.

But then I met Serge Benhayon.

Serge Benhayon | Founder of Universal Medicine
Serge Benhayon | Founder of Universal Medicine

He taught me that the Unconditional Love I longed for, the compassion and tenderness and holding, are already there inside me; that Love is my Divine essence, known to me from my birth in my long ago lives and this life, but which I have obscured, betrayed, and have reacted to and covered up because of the hurts and abuses of this world.

Serge Benhayon lives the Love that he is in every expression of movement and word. He gives a reflection of the Truth of how we are and of unconditional Love here on earth, for we are all Sons of God, here for the purpose of clearing away all the stuff we hold onto and to choose this Love in our lives for ourselves and our human family.

Through the years I have observed and experienced Serge in his interactions and presentations. I have felt him expand in this power of Love. I have felt the emanations of the Love that flows through him and from him towards others – family, friends, students, and strangers. His humility and gentleness have become more apparent, his openness and acceptance of all that is, his example of living that brings forth The Way of The Livingness that is ours to choose and claim.

Always, if I have ever mailed or spoken to Serge I have received a dose of medicine; the Truth delivered with unconditional Love. I have always felt this great flood of warmth, and felt the Truth to my very core, even though sometimes it has been hard to accept.

I have lived a guarded life, and very often keep what I most long for out. Recently I was the subject of a media attack. It was a shock as it came by surprise, bringing up many old deeply buried feelings as I felt the force of it, and for the first time in my life I really allowed myself to feel deeply my vulnerability and fragility as I struggled with this responsibility and yet stood firmly in my truth.

The support and Love I received from Serge during this period is something that is greater than words. An attempt is to say I felt a deepening inside me to a place never before felt, a deep inner glow, and my body was glowing and expanding with the warmth I felt enveloping me, from without and then from within. I felt held in a way I had never been before, I felt the Love pouring through every cell of my body, I experienced healing. The Love was universal, not personal, and totally encompassing, dispelling the darker forces at play within me. I was met, recognised for who I was. I was held in Love.

This amazing man – Serge Benhayon – is humble, knows his equalness to everyone else, and lives a temporal life in the reality of this world from the power of Love within. His Love knows no bounds, is beyond much of human understanding, and stands like a beacon of light and truth.

This Love is the nearest I have felt any human being express Heaven on Earth.

All this I truly feel, and it is a far cry from the complexity and pressure I felt as a child around the subject of the Love of God, and what Heaven is. If I can feel in another that Divine expression – as I have with Serge Benhayon – then I know Heaven is here on earth in that moment, and so I know that if I can feel myself expressing that Divine impulse in even just a few moments of my life, then I have connected with Heaven and the Divine.

We do not have to search for or aspire to it, for it is really very simple: we have to surrender to the knowing of who we truly are, and that is Love.

With appreciation and love for Serge Benhayon, from the depths of my inner heart where he has shown me by reflection how to be and what True Love is, and his continual presence and holding of All in true commitment and service for humanity.

 By Joan Calder

Further Reading:
Is Serge Benhayon The New Messiah?
Who Is Serge Benhayon?
Serge Benhayon – A Reflection Of A Way Of Living

676 thoughts on “The LOVE of Serge Benhayon

  1. Serge Benhayon is the most amazing man I have ever met, his love for humanity know no bounds in the face of so much personal vilification directed at him he just pours out more love. What is occurring would have most people running for the hills or hiding away, but not Serge Benhayon he is absolute when it comes to the truth and does not back down. This is giving the world a different perspective one that we haven’t had for a long time. Evil has such a hold on humanity and for most of us we have been unaware of it. To me what Serge Benhayon is doing is waking the world up to the fact that we have been suppressed by a consciousness that has trapped us for eons so that we have become dull and unaware of the suppression and one day in the future we will realise just how much humanity will owe to this most humble of men.

  2. If love is conditional then it is not love but an imposter masquerading as love. What Serge lives is the real thing (love) and he is the real deal

  3. Yes, Serge is the embodiment of love and truth on earth – not in perfection as that is not possible – but as awesome as it gets.

    1. Another extra- ordinary thing Chris is that we all have this ability to love within our bodies, what Serge Benhayon presents is that we can all tap into this love, he has given humanity the tools to do this and then the rest is up to us. Having tapped into this love for myself which as you say is beautifully beholding there is no way I want to go back to living a grey loveless life.

  4. When I re-read your blog Joan, I could feel a surrender in my body and I can say there is so much more honesty and openness in myself since I have met Serge Benhayon and made the choice to re-connect with God and live every day in the knowing that how I live is medicine.

  5. For a long time I was a bit lost with the word love because what I saw in the world did not corresponds to what I innately felt in my body love to be and therefore made me to go with second best, that love was conditional and needed to be deserved. How false this was to what I do now know love to be because of seeing Serge Benhayon living it in front of me. True love from heaven that is available to us all, we just have to open our doors to let it in and become part of our life.

  6. Experiencing true love is deceptively ordinary. In the beginning it just seems nice but surprisingly normal and ordinary. However, it shows us everything that is not love in our life. If we deal with those items, the love deepens and deepens.

  7. How confusing is this ‘I was taught it was not possible here on earth as it was “heavenly,” but we should all aspire to it.’ So Love is not possible but something we should aspire to! Therefore we have to continually aspire to something that is ‘out of our reach’. Gosh, some things that are out there and what people say are just downright ridiculous and oh so very unsupportive. This could not be further away from the truth. Love, heaven, the divine, God is within each and everyone of us equally so, it is just are we aware of this and are we choosing to connect and truly deeply feel this. And yes I wholeheartedly agree regarding what you have shared about Serge Benhayon, after knowing him for over 11 years that yes definitely his ‘Love knows no bounds, is beyond much of human understanding, and stands like a beacon of light and truth.’ And Serge is dedicated so that each and every person can feel this truth as well within and for themselves. ✨

  8. I was pondering on the word hold and was feeling this word cannot be anything without another i.e. someone holds you. The only way to explore this word is to feel and trust that I do know .. and there you have it. You can hold yourself in the Light that you are a God made in equalness to him. Therefore, you will know what it is you need to know if you hold yourself in that (Light) knowing.

  9. When you read other people’s interactions with Serge I’m sure many get the thought like ‘I thought he was just like that with me”.. Fact is, he is ‘like that’ with EVERYONE.. Kind, caring, DECENT and super respectful and so loving that you could think he was your long lost father or brother or son. In a world where decency and respect has taken a back seat to comfort, leisure, competition and comparison, it is very heart warming and inspiring to have human beings like Serge Benhayon living love and reminding those who care to look of the same love within.

  10. I love it Joan, “Always, if I have ever mailed or spoken to Serge I have received a dose of medicine; the Truth delivered with unconditional Love.” To me that is true medicine that will reawaken us from the veils we are under in this dense three dimensional world we have chosen to decend into.

  11. We can experience heaven on earth and we do not need to go to church for that or be part or member of a religious institution. This connection and feeling to be part of heaven can be experienced in ourselves but more so when we are in relationship with it, it can be felt even more strongly.

      1. Personally I have to get used to that Christoph, that the church is always with me as indeed it needs a redefinition in that way that the house of God is my body and in that my body the church.

  12. We are taught about unconditional love in religion but rarely if ever experience it in real life. I wonder if this telling of God having unconditional love is a setup to foster the separation we have between God and ourselves. I remember knowing what it felt like as a kid, but I did not hang onto it or treasure it and it became something only God was capable of. Having observed Serge Benhayon and now many others over the years I know that this Godly love is natural and within us all. We just let our needs and hurts get in the way.

  13. I was talking to a friend recently and they were expressing how they felt unease around a man who was standing near them they felt his sexualness and it did not feel pleasant to be around they felt unsettled in their own body.We can all feel if someone is angry, upset or being very emotional etc. That is a fact even if we try to dismiss such feelings. Our bodies act like radars as we are constantly assimilating energy around us. Knowing all this, if I then feel into my body I can truthfully say that all these years I have known Serge Benhayon not once have I felt unsettled around him. This is a truth that my body holds and I cannot be swayed on this. But I can fully appreciate what the media are attempting to do, which is to sow the seed of doubt in those who have yet to meet Serge Benhayon. To me they are doing a huge injustice to a man that is so dedicated to the welfare of the human race and in spite of everything that is thrown at him he continues to work tirelessly to present to humanity the truth of our origins and no matter how long it takes or the attacks he personally receives the truth will out. There are not many people in this world who are so dedicated to bring the truth to the world in spite of all the falsehood that is thrown at them.

  14. Joan an attack by anyone can knock us sideways. I can feel love and support that you received by Serge Benhayon has resulted in you not taking any of what was said on and not lessened you in any way. How we can support one another is one of the many things that I have learned from Serge.

  15. Thanks Serge Benhayon for presenting with such a grace and transparency the Way of the Livingness, claiming and expressing daily that living Love is simple if we choose it.

    Thanks Joan for sharing your experience, it feels so precious to read the realization you had by surrender to the knowing of who you are, pure Love from inside.

  16. Not needing to have a close relationship with Serge Benhayon to feel deeply held, loved and cared by him. We live in different countries and see each other once or twice a year, however what he emanates, his presence feels very close to me and makes me realize how love is not for a special ones but for all equally so. I deeply appreciate feeling part of his family that is all Humanity.

  17. It is interesting to look at how Love in some religions is put on a pedestal, as something outside us far away to reach but never as a living quality that we naturally hold within. All what have been told in the past about it felt to me like inconsistent, not true. Serge Benhayon expreses in such a way that makes sense, not because his words fits in my beliefs, but simply because my body feels expanded by receiving what he delivers, a living way where I can feel tender, open, vulnerable, very delicate…I can feel me again and this is amazing in itself.

    1. It seems to me that we have a misunderstanding about fragility and delicateness. As you say Caroline, it is not a weakness but a strength that is held in the body through its connection with the universal laws and it knows to be a part of the whole, the grandness that we tend to call the universe. How ever can that be interpreted as weak?

  18. “I have lived a guarded life, and very often keep what I most long for out” – this is an amazing realization that totally makes sense of the fact that we are everything already.

  19. I love this Melinda – a returning to that which is the truth of who we are, the essence of divine love, seeded in a consistent expansion and likeness of itself (all that is breathed forth from God) .
    “We are birthed by God to become like God”.

  20. His (Serge Benhayon) Love knows no bounds, is beyond much of human understanding, and stands like a beacon of light and truth. “This Love is the nearest I have felt any human being express Heaven on Earth”.

  21. In a world void of true (unconditional) love one may have given up on it existing or maybe not even expecting more than the watered down and distorted versions of love that are so familiar and normal we need to experience ‘it’ in the most real and tangible form (a person living it) before we may open up to the possibility that this unconditional love is also available for us in our life – then we may realize that unconditional love always has been and forever will be our very essence.

  22. Surrendering to the knowing that we are love, that our connection to our innermost is filled with the most exquisite love we know, and thank you to Serge Benhayon for taking us there.

  23. The Love that is Serge Benhayon share so much that brings us a deeper understanding of the way True-Love-Works, to the point where we will all understand that eventually the so called ‘dark forces’ are also our equal brothers and they too shall be Loved equally.

  24. “He taught me that the Unconditional Love I longed for, the compassion and tenderness and holding, are already there inside me.” This in itself is most beautiful to rediscover, that we are already all that we are.

  25. The warmth that you speak of from Serge Benhayon is undeniable, and leaves no room for not knowing you are also that warmth. It is this warmth we all want in life, and it starts from within.

    1. While this warmth is something we all longing for, at times I do experience just the opposite. An intense cold coming out of my body and I do appreciate that as a healing by letting go all that is not love (the cold) from my body.

  26. Thank you Joan, it’s been so supportive to read your blog again. “I really allowed myself to feel deeply my vulnerability and fragility as I struggled with this responsibility and yet stood firmly in my truth.” This was very healing and confirming for me to read, in life lies may be directed at us and it may take us by surprise, but all we can do is hold firm in the truth and honour our vulnerabilities as we go through it.

  27. When you write that, “His humility and gentleness have become more apparent, his openness and acceptance of all that is, his example of living that brings forth The Way of The Livingness that is ours to choose and claim”, I am reminded that it is us who change as we discard the layers that we have accumulated to cover those exact qualities that we equally possess.

  28. Words of truth — “We do not have to search for or aspire to it, for it is really very simple: we have to surrender to the knowing of who we truly are, and that is Love.”

  29. We are sold the idea of some form of afterlife be it heaven or other, and this idea that life here is something to be endured and somehow if we’re good we will be rewarded. But this misses the possibility of living the love we are here, and indeed the responsibility of bringing that love to this lived life and this is what Serge Benhayon shows, that it’s possible to live the love you are here and now, and as we do we inspire each other.

  30. It is the greatest gift ever to be supported in realising that we do not need to search for, long for, aspire to, or demand love from others, knowing that we simply need to heal and let go of the many layers we have put in the way of experiencing and expressing the absoluteness of the love that we already are.

  31. Joan thanks for writing this article on Serge Benhayon and his capacity to love unconditionally everyone, to me he is such a blessing. Serge is like a rock that is indomitable against anything that life throws his way he is his own master. And as a child I was desperate to find someone who had such a command of life and a way to live that was so solid it was true. I feel certain we all miss this true way of living that brings a settlement to our bodies at last.

    1. As children, we know this truth and live it to the extent possible; it is not until later, in most cases, that we get disillusioned because the world reflects anything but that truth.

  32. I love re-reading this article Joan. From meeting Serge, for me too, the tide was turned to come back to the love that has been residing within forever and to bring a stop to the continual seeking externally for this..
    “He [Serge Benhayon] taught me that the Unconditional Love I longed for, the compassion and tenderness and holding, are already there inside me; that Love is my Divine essence, known to me from my birth in my long ago lives and this life, but which I have obscured, betrayed, and have reacted to and covered up because of the hurts and abuses of this world.”

  33. That we can live heaven on earth is not only very reassuring and confirming but holds the everything of everything, in other words, we are part of the everything, the universe, and thus all that the universe is is us too so its is in our natural expression to bring this to the very place we are right now, here on earth.

  34. It is the LOVE of Serge Benhayon that has allowed me to bit by bit learn to trust again, to let go of the layers of protection and to connect to that amazing warmth you describe.

  35. Many of us live a ‘guarded life’ and I would suggest we do not even realize we are doing it…I joked about being a crab, because my horoscope said I was ‘cancer’, but I had not seriously considered that I was guarded, I thought that shell was a good idea, it protected me..what I am learning is that shell numbs you, it keeps from connection with yourself first and others, that guard harms and Serge Benhayon full of love and responsibility shows us all that there is another way to be with ourselves and others.

    1. I love this very simple example Samantha, as that is exactly what we do, we take a way of living and thinking as normal which is in truth not normal nor natural to us. We take on ideals and beliefs and live by them but deny ourselves the inner wisdom that lives within us all. We exchange our inner truth for the many disguises the world is offering us.

  36. Learning to surrender to who I am, to let go of all that I am not, and embrace all that I am has been long and at times difficult, but I would not have it any other way as I learn that living from our essence is the only way and any other way is an absolute imposter.

  37. We are blessed to know Serge Benhayon, he is a true role model in the way he consistently lives and moves in love, I would hate to think where my life would be now if I hadn’t met him.

  38. To know that heaven can be lived on earth is so liberating and asks for the responsibility for us to live in a way that allows this … this is what is presented by Serge Benhayon, that heaven on earth is indeed possible, and it’s about us choosing to align to the energy of heaven and moving in a way which confirms this.

  39. “But then I met Serge Benhayon.” Such a profound opportunity to feel the love that embraces us all.

  40. In life, I was often disappointed at the lack of love in the world and also equally disappointed when a form of love was claimed to be the real thing but it never quite matched up to what I truly felt love was. Then I met Serge Benhayon, who showed me the true version of love through his living way. I was reassured that true love in expression and embodiment existed and that there was at last, true evidence of love being lived.

  41. The inner love I have found with the support of Serge Benhayon is the greatest discovery of my life. It offers no comparison to romantic love which I always thought would bring me what I was missing, but failed every time. Love within precedes love with others, and transforms all my relationships with friends, family, a partner and work colleagues alike into honouring, respectful and loving experiences.

  42. “The LOVE of Serge Benhayon” – the more love is understood the greater the love and appreciation of Serge Benhayon who lives this adored quality for the solidness it provides to our lives.

  43. When we feel the Unconditional Love in the beholding of another and then reflected in ourselves, we are able to come Home to ourselves once again, like re-lighting that taper that never stops burning, and grows ever brighter.

  44. Its amazing how we can let the outside environments around us have such a detrimental effect on the relationship with ourselves and with others. Reacting to the endless loveless ways that dominate our society even the ways that present themselves to be ‘good and caring’ but when it comes down to it the bottom line is that unless we have that absolute love for ourselves and appreciate this connection to our Divine essence then we can’t have it with anyone else.

  45. I literally had no idea of the love that lives within all of us… It was not until I met Serge Benhayon that it became at all possible for me to feel this. This love can only be ignited by one who lives in its essence, it is only then that the words become alive, and have the fire to reignite us.

  46. As you have shared Joan the beautiful thing about this is that Serge Benhayon lives this love 24/7 with everyone he meets and there is no plateau it is forever deepening within himself and all his relationships. Truly inspiring ✨

  47. Feeling the Love that Serge Benhayon lives each day is a real treat. He has such love for himself and everyone on the planet that its a real joy and inspiration to connect with. The inspiration puts a spring in my step and lights up my life. I am so fortunate to know this man and walk by his side.

  48. Joan this is a priceless living testimony to the absolute Truth that Serge Benhayon lives 24/7. An unwavering love for all. I wholeheartedly agree with your words. “This amazing man – Serge Benhayon – is humble, knows his equalness to everyone else, and lives a temporal life in the reality of this world from the power of Love within. His Love knows no bounds, is beyond much of human understanding, and stands like a beacon of light and truth”.

  49. A beautiful appreciation Joan. Serge presents an absolute equalness in all he is and embraces all in that equalness without exception, inspiring beyond measure.

  50. Holding a quality of love up as the ‘ideal’ but claiming that it is only possible in heaven seems like a rather cruel carrot to dangle. This is what you can get when you go to heaven. In the meantime, you just have to slog it out and stay on the hamster wheel of life, trying to achieve the unachievable. That is something I instantly loved about the Ageless Wisdom teachings presented by Serge Benhayon. There is no separation, struggle, middle man or qualifying time. We are made in God’s image, a replica if you like, and it is our right to claim this now.

  51. This is so beautifully shared Joan, thank you. Our Souls in-truth are of Heaven, and so we have every opportunity to live in connection to our Divinity, to God. In fact, every move we make in connection to this quality is a religious one. And yes, the Livingness of Serge Benhayon is a blessing for us all so that we can be reminded of who we are in essence and that there is a very tangible way for us to live Heaven on Earth, through our bodies, as this is why we all are here.

    1. Well expressed Carola, ‘the Livingness of Serge Benhayon is a blessing for us all so that we can be reminded of who we are in essence…’ and how true is that – the absolute truth. Here is a man who is living to a quality that stands out like the beacon of light that he is. It is the light he lives that shows the way so clearly.

  52. When I was searching in earnest in my late teens and early twenties I was looking above all for a connection to God that was both alive and relevant in the world today. I looked far and wide, and in the end stumbled across it where I was least expecting it… a session with Serge Benhayon. What he presents cannot be recommended more highly, and the gift of finding this teaching is a blessing for us all.

  53. There is a way to express love in a movement and the Benhayons are masters of this movement. One of the family members walked past me and I could tell they were there before I saw them, this goes beyond conscious awareness to a connection at the particle level of our bodies. Our bodies respond to love at the particle level which supersedes the mind completely.

  54. Thank you Joan for a deeply beautifully sharing of experiencing Serge Benhayon’s love and your own deepening love for yourself. In his living way of deeply beholding love and equality for all humanity, Serge has brought heaven down for us so that we too a can experience our own heavenly love that lies within.

  55. The divinity you spoke of experiencing is so beautiful and it is actually all of us, how we naturally feel… The more we let go of all that is not us the greater our connection to the divinity you expressed. Your words bathed me in Love thank you Joan.

  56. Serge Benhayon knows who he is deep to his bones and doesn’t hold back his immense love, and the fact that he is absolutely Divine. This he reflects with every word and action for us all to feel and know, that we too are this amazing being of pure love.

  57. What is the value of being taught about a love that does not exist where we live but in Heaven? If we compare that with learning and being able to feel that the same ‘inexistent’ love lives inside us, we are in a pretty different situation altogether.

  58. Serge Benhayon certainly is love everywhere, and do we need the reflection of love here on earth! ‘Serge Benhayon lives the Love that he is in every expression of movement and word. He gives a reflection of the Truth of how we are and of unconditional Love here on earth’.

  59. When “that unconditional, abiding and holding Love of God” came into my life on meeting Serge Benhayon, I clearly remember the suspicion I felt; “who iS this man?”. How sad is it and how lost we are that the beliefs we take on, the utter lies we invest in, and the perpetuation of this way of living from generation to generation, means we can so flippantly dismiss, and accusingly question, the representation of our own essential divinity back to us.

  60. When the divine traits in another, in this case the World Teacher, become seemingly more apparent, it is in the eye of the beholder that something has changed; they have gone to greater depth in themselves and cleared more of the hurts and emotions that used to be in the way of the very clear reflection.

  61. I agree the love of Serge Benhayon knows no bounds, ‘This amazing man – Serge Benhayon – is humble, knows his equalness to everyone else, and lives a temporal life in the reality of this world from the power of Love within. His Love knows no bounds, is beyond much of human understanding, and stands like a beacon of light and truth.’

  62. Yes, Serge Benhayon brings this true blessing to the world, the blessing of knowing we are divine underneath everything we are doing.

  63. “He taught me that the Unconditional Love I longed for, the compassion and tenderness and holding, are already there inside me; that Love is my Divine essence,” Beautifully expressed Joan. Serge Benhayon holds love for everyone equally and walks his talk – full of energetic integrity. A true world teacher who will one day be known as such.

  64. Joan it’s truly beautiful to read this again, your words about your evolving relationship with love and the truth you have found in the reflection of Serge Benhayon is wonderful to read. And as you share, this same love that is still, warm, holding, and that meets you for who you are is there equally in us all – it just needs to be let out and expressed. It’s also an interesting line about our own love “which I have obscured, betrayed, and have reacted to and covered up because of the hurts and abuses of this world.” I hadn’t been aware of the possibility that I could have betrayed my own love – something to ponder!

  65. Serge Benhayon delivers the Truth of Love that holds you completely and beautifully, cuts to the chase, and is totally unencumbered by self.

  66. We so often think that to surrender is a weakness. I am constantly finding the deepest confidence and strength and this has only come with the choice to surrender to my body, to consciously let go of tension and to feel the power that is deep inside, a power that I could only imagine as being me, is of no imagining, it is real, but requires my choice to connect with it.

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